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History of Promise Rings

Here is a brief history of Promise Rings and what promise rings mean to us today.


Promise rings can  be traced back to ancient Rome, when "betrothal rings' ' were constructed of cheap iron. From the 15th to 17th centuries this was followed by the growth of "posie rings" in France and England. Promise rings were mementos given to lovers and were frequently engraved with brief love poems. Although generally given the same way today, the true "promises'' underlying a promise ring could mean different things to different individuals. The fundamental notion here is commitment, but let this commitment be for a future engagement, abstinence until marriage, the concept of eternity, or simply the near future, it differs. There is no set guideline for placement, however many people think that the finger you've selected as your "engagement and/or wedding ring finger" has the most significance. 

Definition of a promise ring

A promise ring is an outward symbol of commitment and faithfulness to another person to whom it is given and worn. A promise ring is, to put it simply, a step up from dating. Promise rings communicate to the rest of the world that your heart belongs to someone else and that you are committed to safeguarding and fostering that connection. A promise ring is frequently offered as a forerunner to an engagement these days, although this is not always the case.

Which finger do you wear a promise ring on?

 A promise ring can be worn on either hand's ring finger. A promise ring is traditionally worn on the left hand if it is presented and accepted as a symbol of future commitment.

 How long do you wait after giving a promise ring before giving an engagement ring? 

A promise ring does not start a countdown to marriage, but it is something you ought to be prepared to talk about. Be honest and open about your future plans as a pair, as well as your thoughts about marriage in general. 


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